I am open to contributing to media, speaking at events or on podcasts, writing for publications or working on longer-term projects - if you think I might be a good fit for your project, contact me!
Media, Publications & Interviews ft. Shae
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Kink Curious: A Guide to Exploring Your Kinks, Dispelling Shame, and Staying Safe
This guide to kink is by Gigi Engle and Jessica Kingsley Publishers. My contributions are mainly in the Queer Kink chapter (5).
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Queer people are winning 2016 trend, but it's bittersweet
Who doesn’t love an excuse to dig out old, slightly embarrassing pictures and reminisce about the way things used to be? But for queer people, this kind of nostalgia can be bittersweet. Shae was interviewed for Metro.
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How does a lack of queer sex-ed affect your sex life?
Expert contribution for Diva Magazine (Dec 2025) Queer Sex edition.
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A Queer Breakdown Of Stone Sexual Identities
What is a stone identity and what do we get wrong about our assumptions of stone identities? Written by Maya Walsh-Little for Go Magazine.
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Is your first lesbian breakup really the worst you’ll ever go through?
Interviewed by journalist Lois Shearing for Metro. ‘We can all put a lot of pressure on ourselves to make our first relationships work, and this goes especially for queer people,’ explains Shae Harmon.
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Experts Answer Your Questions About Trans Dating
Love Transcends, is a special project by Cosmopolitan that celebrates the resilience, wisdom, hope, and joy of the trans community as its members navigate romantic love.
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I Thought My Libido Was Broken Until I Learned About Responsive Desire
Expert contribution about desire and sex.
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A human rights based approach to transgender and gender expansive health
Clinical Psychology Forum Issue 369
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Beginners guide to Lesbian Sex
Expert tips and advice for anyone new to sapphic sex from Gigi Engle in Cosmopolitan.
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What’s the Difference Between Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?
An article in Cosmopolitan by Kayla Kibbe
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Diva Magazine: Queer intimacy IG convo
Ali Hendry, Life Coach and Columnist for Diva, interviews Shae Harmon about intimacy and trust with a queer lens.
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Episode 210: Trans pleasure and queer joy (Can we please talk more about trans people?!)
The Sex Wrap Podcast
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How the aromantic community is deepening definitions of intimacy
For Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week, Gay Times spoke to three aromantic people to hear what love means to them and how the LGBTQIA+ community can become more inclusive of the aromantic spectrum.
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Six things not to say when dating a trans person
Feeld : How to Series
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Why awareness of trans and non-binary identities is important for your practice
COSRT - College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists